Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Massive manhunt for escaped JI terror leader

http://www.straitstimes.com/Latest%2BNews/Singapore/STIStory_211064.html

Remember his face!!! Danger.


Singapore's most wanted militant escaped from the Whitley Road detention centre on Wednesday afternoon

THE leader of the Singapore terrorist Jemaah Islamiyah (JI) network, Mas Selamat Kastari, escaped from the Whitley Road detention centre at about 4.05 pm on Wednesday, said the Ministry of Home Affairs in a statement.

Stress...

Life is amazing...

When we are born, people around are smiling, we are crying...

when we pass on, people around us cry, but do we smile?

Maybe yes, maybe no...

frankly, this year isnt that 'happy'.. Ah Meng, Lydia Sum, MC King..
Many of my friends and their families, were ill and sick.

And just now, i read the news, Jackie Chan's dad, passed away at the age of 94 years old.

my family also troubled, went to a lousy Maid Agency, named 'Ming Employment' at Katong. Please do not go there. After our first maid's contract ended and she went back to Indonesia, the new maids are really no good.

This new maid, omg, need us to teach her to fry a sunshine egg, wash toliet.
Didnt all these are taught to them? FYI, all of them went through lessons to learn basic chores.

Haiz. I know im not alone, including me, people around also troubled by own problems. And this problem - $$$ is also one of the main thing.

And i am anxious about my coming prelims and exams...
Got bit of phobia..cos my 1st yr exam didnt do very good. i want to do better this time..but phobia leh. those Britons like to use bombastic English and beat around the bush in setting questions.

guess i can only find peace after May..

I tell my friends,
天将降大任于斯人也
and
能者多劳

heaven is letting you take up heavy responsibles, thats why need to 'train' you. And only capable people 'work' more.

A begger no need to work, a useless tree nobody will care and chop down to make furniture. Sometimes, stress and work, is because we are capable of working. thats why we have all these 'problems'. It can really be a form of 'blessings'.

Lets encourage each another! Jia you!

lou hei pics




overdue liao..anyway..lolz...some pics..

一公升的眼泪

一公升的眼泪


之前大略有看这部日剧。后来因为忙,没看完。最近决定继续观看。
妹妹看了几集,决定‘休息’一阵子。原因是她觉得太伤感了。她用了英文子depressed, 来形容。
朋友也看了,感到伤心,难过。是个悲剧。
说我没落泪,是假。我心中无不为这女生感到惋惜。
英年早逝。有时候造化弄人,神仙难救。
很久没有看戏然后心中落泪。这部日剧给了我很多启示。

悲剧的发生,没有原因。整个故事是真实故事。关于大脑的一种病症。无药可救。

女主角,问医生,为何‘选择’她。
无法回答。命运如此。

故事环绕一位勇敢女生,15岁患病,经历10年的奋斗,25岁,1988年过世。
大脑和身体无法协调,控制。普通的说话,走路都有问题。
人的大脑真的很重要,而且复杂,奥妙。人的生命也很真贵。
现在很多人不珍惜,动不动就‘自杀’。不然的话就整天虚度光阴。

还未看完这部日剧,还差几集。但,感触良多。女生最后家人,很庆幸的都很爱护,鼓励她。还有她的朋友。虽然有一些‘混蛋’,但是总的来说,周围的人都很鼓励她。

我们人生中,多鼓励周围的人,珍惜周围事物和人。
生命不在长短,在于充不充实,有没有意义。


不要等到失去才后悔。人的生命有时真的很脆弱的。
宠物没了,可以再买。至亲不在了,无法‘买’。

多点赞美,多点关心。能够付出,是件福气。因为你有能力为别人付出。
不要忽略身边的人。


人有旦夕祸福,悲欢离合,现实生活中,一公升眼泪,很可能不只一公升。
要感恩,要惜福。

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

习惯

佣人走了。
这几天所有事情都要‘自己来’。哈哈。
没关系啊,没什么能难倒我的。
今天和朋友到The Central 的 Waraku 吃日本餐。价格和食物都蛮不错。
大家可以试试。服务也算好。就是繁忙时候,我们也没被‘忽略’。
今天我也没开车。上学,出外都搭巴士。哈哈,的确有点慢。
151到学校,1小时!天啊,在巴士‘闭目养身’。
851,从SIM到克拉码头 -The Central。还好,45分钟。
回家搭51巴士。倒霉,易通卡突然‘坏’了。还好朋友有零钱。
久未搭巴士,有点‘晕车’。还好,相信久了就会习惯。
很多东西也是,‘久了就习惯’,‘习惯就好’。
可能,真的要懂得放下,懂得要‘习惯’。

Monday, February 25, 2008

'bo liao' blog

真的很好笑。
我有两个妹妹。
一个今年19岁,一个今年14岁。
19岁的,很厉害。sobrano 1 的高音。最近更配了副类似‘方大同’的眼镜。
戴了这眼镜,十分像方大同。
14岁的也很厉害。超像 ‘YES 933 DJ - 巫许玛利。哈哈。真的,她们可以参加明星脸了。
anyway... 看完台剧 - 换换爱。有感情戏份,感人,有好笑的,笑死人。
人生如戏,戏如人生。
好了,精短的,BLOG。 只在博君一笑。哈哈。

Sunday, February 24, 2008

内疚



心理有些内疚。
首先,阅读这篇BLOG的人,必须保持非常客观的态度。
我对整件事情是蛮了解的。所以误会的机会,是比较不太可能。
好了,言归正传,我感到内疚,只是我心理一种奇特的变化,是我们普通人都会有的。没有对错,而是一种人的心理转变。很是奇妙。





认识我的人,都知道我家有佣人。佣人在我家是非常重要的。第一,家中有老人要照顾。第二,为了填补家用,老妈必须到公司帮忙我老爸。所以家务事情,需要多一个人来打理。
我和两个妹妹是有帮忙,但是毕竟我们也有自己的事情要照顾啊。大家又没有三头六臂。
第一个佣人还好。整体上大家还是满意。做事有些粗枝大叶但是她有用心做。
用心的做事,必定会让人满意。
现在的佣人,就不同了。语言上非常糟糕。佣人介绍所声称这佣人英文不好,但是基本沟通还行。


简直是放屁。


‘COME’,‘GO’,‘COOK’。简单的单词都不清楚!这哪是‘基本’?这是连最基本都不会。
做事又没下心思。对周遭的事物不关心。不懂又有时装懂。
还会顶嘴。
今天,下午四点左右,老妈吩咐要准备晚餐,还交待要煮汤。(过后老妈和其他家人都出外了,我也不在)。
五点多,妹妹(她一人留在家),告诉佣人她不要吃饭,她要吃面。佣人不知道是忘了,还是听错,还是假装,竟然没煮饭。汤是准备了,饭菜都没煮。
天啊。我七点到家,还以为家人都出外用餐,剩下我和妹妹。我两吃面解决晚餐。
不久,其他家人回来了,发现没准备晚餐,大家都差点‘昏了过去’。我非常生气,
大声训了佣人。这已经不是第一次她‘忘记’,或则‘误解’我们给予的吩咐。其实就算不懂,通过观察和一些思考,下点心思,还是能做好事情的。但是她就没有。没有所谓的‘INITIATIVE’。



她是典型的‘哭包’。训了她之后突然想起今早她的家人打电话(从印尼打长途电话)来。好奇问她她家人说些什么。她回答‘家人吩咐她要好好做工’。



内疚从心理涌起。因为我们其实已经打算,来临的星期一,就把她送回介绍所,重新换个新佣人。之所以这样,她其实已经没有机会再‘好好做工’了。她将辜负她的家人。其实她家人可能知道她的缺点,所以时常打电话来新加坡,‘嘱咐’她要用心做工。
我给予她,她家人同情。可是,不换佣人,对现在这个佣人和我全家,都不好受。毕竟我们给了她三个月机会了。她是去年十二月来的。
没办法。希望她能从中学习...

Saturday, February 23, 2008

edison chen's scandal

I am happy that he leave.. leaving HK showbiz. But i feel that he might come back very soon.

Some friends mention he can go hollywood. well, i don't care, hollywood got plenty of people like him. Birds of same feathers can flock together.

As an idol, his attitude sucks. And he is a very bad example for many young fans. Worse, i do sense that many young young girls might really LIKE this kind of 'i dun care'. 'f up' character. They think its 'cool'.

All along, i don't like him. From his way i know he is not a responsible person. Unethical celebrity.

Anyway..this morning, i took down the CNY deco... have to wait another 11 months before another CNY. Next year CNY will be early. End of Jan.

Time really files. My sis just celebrated her 19 bday and she managed to get into ITE Simei on a hair stlying course. Its her interest, hope she can excel in it.

In life, don't live it with regrets. Persue your dreams and live a responsible life. There's no second chance... Don't wait and don't hesitate, if chances are gone, they are gone. Once today is gone, there is not 'today'. Today's 'today' and tomorrow's 'today' is different. 23/02/2008 is never the same as 24/02/2008.




The sun sets and will rise again. Flowers withered will bloom again. Once your time is gone, it be gone forever. No replay, no reset. A cracked vase will always be a cracked vase. How to mend? the crack will still be there.

In life, we ofen say 'if..' 'if so and so'...But reality tells us, there is no 'IF'. If there is really 'if', i will buy Thurs TOTO number and take the SGD$ 1000 00000, and take half to invest in currency.

If there is 'if', Lydia Sum will take care of her health better, i will not also lose the chance i got many years ago, the 'too innocent' female celebrities with Edison will think twice before doing such foolish things...

my exams are coming too..and i know there is no 'if' to it also.

Friday, February 22, 2008

Congrats Singapore


Congratulations to Singapore on the successful bidding for the hosting of the first ever Youth Olympic Games 2010!


Certainly, im happy for Singapore. And now, we gonna work hard within these 2 years to prepare for the event. This require not the govt but also we people, the citizen to play a role too.


In terms of Social ethics, courtesy, we have to improve. Our roads, facilities have to work on it too. Its not SEA Games, local sports event, its Youth Olympic. People from all over the world will come.


Hosting of this game will also improve our global status, a milestone for us. Socially, economy we will benefit. Provided we do a good job. Anyway, i have faith in our govt and also all fellow Singaporeans.



Anyway, Yuan Xiao had passed, CNY officially over liao, im munching the left over 'tang yuan' (gluttinous rice balls).. time to work hard now. For exams, for many things. All our new yr resolutions await us to execute them.


Thursday, February 21, 2008

Yuan Xiao Jie

元宵节 Yuan xiao jie, aka 上元节 shang yuan jie has arrived..
it falls on the 15th of the 1st lunar month. It marks the end of the Spring festival (15 days) and its a day of blessings too. Many Chinese call it the Chinese Valentine's Day.

Well, in short the origin of this festival is the worship of the Heaven Official Deity (上元)天官大帝
, one of the Trio Deities - The Three Divine Official 三官.
thats why we have this term - 天官赐福 Tian Guan Ci Fu (may the heaven official bestow blessings on us).
The other 2 deities are :
(中元)地官赦罪 - Earth Official, pardoning of sins. 7th month festival originated from him
(下元)水官解厄 - Water Official, dispelling of disasters.

Because the ancients seek blessings and celebrate by lighting lamps, lanterns, it had become a custom on this Yuan xiao festival. There will be pasar malam (fairs) and very happening. Just like our Chingay.

Maybe thats why, its a good chance to walk walk and find a partner for thos who are singles! lolz.

To me, its also a day to mark the real 'hell period' for me. Exams, prelims, revisions are pouring in. My engine must be fully started and heated to welcome all these 'stress'.

Coincidentally, this day is my sis bday too. And just now, i just experience the warmth from my family members. Their support and concern touched me. This incident (cant disclosed, sorry) made me realize the importance of family.

Taking this auspicious day(yuan xiao), cherish your family, make them happy.

Anyway.. i also realized something. MANY ppl, including me..hee..although my family and me didnt 'invest' much money. Lydia Sum had passed away, thousands of ppl betted on her death timing and dates. And guess what? NON of the combinations appeared on wed (20/02/2008)'s 4D.

4D, TOTO etc..play play can, dun get too serious or addictive.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Good Bye Lydia Sum...

HK celebrity Lydia Sum dies at 60





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Hong Kong celebrity Lydia Sum dies at 60



HONG KONG: Actress and comedian Lydia Sum has passed away in hospital, according to Hong Kong media reports. She was 60 years old. The popular Hong Kong celebrity had been suffering from diabetes and high blood pressure, among other illnesses. In 2002, an inflammation of her bile duct placed her in hospital, where 36 gallstones were extracted. Subsequently in 2006, Sum was diagnosed with cancer, and had part of her liver removed. The veteran actress, known affectionately to her fans as "Fei Fei", had been criticised by the Hong Kong media for worsening her medical condition by consuming certain foods against doctors' orders. She was rushed to the hospital again last August, having suffered from pleural effusion - a complication of liver failure. But the beloved comedian braved her failing health to attend the 40th TVB Anniversary Awards ceremony in November. She was wheeled out on stage to accept the TVB Grand Award in a cheery pink outfit, completed with her signature wig and plastic-framed glasses. Sum had starred in numerous Hong Kong films, as well as a sitcom on Mediacorp’s Channel 5 named "Living With Lydia". -


CNA/yb





I am extremely sad...although not very surprised over her demised...as she was critically ill for a long time. Perhaps..like what Jiaying mentioned, it may be a good thing for her, to end this suffering, and also the lessen the load on her daughter. Medical bills are draining their savings.



20 over years, i have been watching her on TV. Im a Cantonese, so i got many opportunities to appreciate her shows, movies and films.

Her laughter, acting skills leave a deep impression on many people.



MC King, our dear Ah Meng and now Lydia Sum. The People of the 'yester-era' are slowly leaving. Well, i think this is life, this is the way of nature. Ever changing..



I actually felt a sudden loss when i learnt of the news from Chin Chye, he smsed me. Then i checked the news and its real. Felt like suddenly missing something...



Guess this feeling will linger for sometime..



Lydia Sum, your contributions and work will always be remembered, may You RIP.

Ah Meng


Singapore, February 8, 2008 - Ah Meng, Singapore Zoo’s most famous and well-loved orang utan, passed away today due to old age. She was an estimated 50 years old.


abit slow rite? this blog. yes, its old news and i did felt bit sad initially. Then just now, i visited other blogs and saw Ah Meng's closed up photo. Yes, she is really old. And she really looked different. From a small Orang Utan, she grew, had family. And she really looked, feel like a real human. A normal animal, u take the photo, and Ah Meng, u take photo on her, the feeling, looking into her eyes, its just abit different.


maybe im too senstive, maybe im crazy, but i know, how time flies... the happy things, even people around us do not last forever and..many times, we really take it/them for granted...maybe including Ah Meng of Singapore Zoo? that we take her for granted? 'oh she's just an orang utan in the zoo'....


May she RIP.




Monday, February 18, 2008

桃花位



刚看完了香港‘怪谈’春节节目。春节期间怪谈不谈‘鬼怪’,谈过年运程等喜庆的东西。
之前有教人接福接财神,这期,12/02/2008 也是最后一期了(春节怪谈-笑谈)。春节它们不叫‘怪谈’,叫‘笑谈’。这期讲的是‘桃花’。哈哈。
几位命理师傅,宗教师傅运用流年的飞星九宫图,向大家分析近年桃花位子在哪里。
近年桃花在中央。一白星是桃花星。在中央也代表了它是主力,所以今年关于‘淫’的大事件将不断发生!
去年是二黑星,主病痛。
是巧合?还是中国人运用玄学,能预知未来?
香港陈冠希和其他女艺人的‘淫照’风波,闹的很大。是否印证了这‘桃花星’的力量?
人的失败成功,有外在因素,也有内在因素。很多事情科学很难解释,必须要用玄学(超自然)。
话说回来,陈冠希的事件,是有因有果的。他一路来都是走‘叛逆’路线,‘古惑仔’的道路。很‘酷’。现在还‘酷’吗?天是有眼的。
做人还是老实点,偶尔耍酷胡闹还可以,千万不要骄傲,过度叛逆,和作些不道德的行为。天网恢恢,疏而不漏!


lazy sunday

Haiz... initially was going to St James..but last min recall that there was this Chingay post parade party and the whole area must be packed. Hee, personalyl for me is i can give it a try, since it was only around 10pm after the 'lou hei' dinner at Upper Thomson. We might still about to go in (St James).

In the end, we didnt go there, we went to the less crowded Dempsey Road. Despite being 'less crowded', there was still a decent flow of people and cars were parked all over the place. We searched for a while before we found a nice cozy bar.

Quarubar

Yes, thats the name of the bar. I didnt brought my cam and the hp cam is lousy, so didnt take any photo.

My group of friends are really crazy. LOL. After we all ordered our 1st round of drink, and i got myself a 'singapore sling'. In 'conjunction' with Singapore Chingay. lol..hehee..

After that, my friends started to be adventurous. We start to order shots. 'After 5', tequilla, Vodka, Irish Cream... i glupped 3-4 shots plus in the end, helped a friend together finish his flaming lamborghini.

We chit chat until around 130am before we left. Our friends MJ and Diana got to send their parents to the airport at 330am! omg...

They went home while we went to Tanjong Pagar for supper. I didnt ate anything other then 1 teh ice. After that, we went home, sharing cab. Its really 'heng' for me, that i didnt drive. There were alot of massive road blocks.. I could have been stopped and get caught.

Overall, the bar is good, nice ambience, good for relaxing, chilling.

Slept until 9am..yes, i slept at 3am and woke up at 9am...i was woke by my parents. Passing me a key. My hardy 8518 was 'mobolized', so i got a replacement, an Opel red vehicle. It was a decent vehicle. I love the color. only thing is not very used to its function. The left and right blinking light, the switch is on the left, while normal vehicles, the switch is on the right. So i actually pressed the wrong function a few times.(it was the wipper..lol).

Drove to jiaying house take angbao, lame a while at his house, ate some nice noodles and mutton curry, funny tasting pumkin kuey, ottah. Got cereal prawn but i cant eat. After that, went to have a simple spin to chomp chomp, eat char kuey tiao and beancurd. The beancurd taste nice, mine got mango favor somemore..but cant take much. It does not taste that nice if you eat too much.

so this my sunday..eating, sleeping...lol...next week cant like that liao..gotta study...

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Saturday, February 16, 2008

春节感言

春到河畔,春节灯市,过年的喜庆节目‘无聊’?
简单的一句话,但是对我而言,是很深奥的。因为它反映了
现代人的心理。
极度不平衡!
为何呢?
圣诞节,情人节,开斋节,浴佛节(VESAK)等节日,也是‘换汤不换药’。
庆祝方式一样,装饰品一样。
‘反对’,‘无聊’声很少(虽然还是有)。
春节呢?华人占总人口70%,但是‘无聊’声越来越大声!
我觉得是华人不懂得‘appreciate’自己的文化。
过度崇洋,过度自我‘中心’。
当然,主办单位也要负起责任。无厘头的东西要减少。
展览要有深度,不要那么肤浅。展览资料要正确!好像这次春到河畔介绍华人节日,其中缺少了很多重要资料没展出,而且有些资料也不太正确。
端午节不只是纪念屈原。
中元节不是佛教节日。
春节竟然没介绍接财神,初一贺正,开年等。
‘天公’是道教玉皇上帝没介绍。
元宵节正确名称-上元节来源没交代 (来源是道教祭祀的天官信仰-天官赐福)
冬至是华人24节气,不是冬天过了,而是冬天到了极点。
清明也是24节气之一。
中秋节非祭祀常娥啊,是祭祀月亮!华人很重视日月星三光的祭祀。
华人要懂得珍惜,欣赏自己文化。不要固步自封,自以为是。
自己不断丢掉自己文化,外国人不断学习我们的文化(包括华文)。
真实可惜。

Chingay Preview and F1 Racing preview

Someone 'complained' i only post in Chinese and 'difficult' to read..haiz..so i have to 'mix and match' my post. Make it some Chinese, some English.

well, yesterday was really fun. Afternoon went Bras Basah Complex to run some errands, then to Waterloo St Guanyin Temple to make prayers.. and lastly to SIM pick up Jiaying.

Jiaying was enrolling in his revision classes for UOL, i done my early in the morning. Year 2 students' time slot was earlier, Jiaying, year 1's slot was in the evening.

The enrollment was done on the Student Portal internet. Sound 'hi tech' but trust me, i still prefer convention pen and paper. System hang, laggy system made the E Enrollment a troublesome, complicated process.

After that, we met Junrong and Florence at Marina, intially we only planned to walk around the annual River Angbao, to catch the feeling of CNY and take photos.. but we got bonus. We 'clashes' with the Chingay preview and F1 Car preview!

Our HP and cameras became handy, taking lots of photo. pity my sis took my memory card, i can only upload the pics later tonight..

It was really fun. Pity Liqing, Tianhao and Chinchye they all cant join us..

later going to SPI louhei session...its the 7th yusheng louhei for me..lol..hopefully it brings good luck! After that going to St James.. bobian... my other friends kept asking me to join them.. so today will be a long day for me too.

well..thats all for my 'reflection' for now...

Friday, February 15, 2008

情人节快乐

情人节快乐!

迟来的祝福。昨天有要‘拜天公’,所以比较忙。
‘天公’,指的是道教的‘上帝’-玉皇上帝。也是华人公认,至高无上的天帝。
华人的宇宙观,是相信天地万物,由‘道’而生。道,神化就是‘三清’。
道,也化出玉皇上帝,来统领三界。如同我们的总理。一般人称玉皇为‘玉皇大帝’。这是不对的。他的正确名称是‘玉皇上帝’,简称‘玉帝’,‘玉皇’。俗称‘天公’。
今天也是玉皇圣诞,祝愿大家蒙福,蒙恩,无量寿福。
倒回来说情人节,情人节被商业化,但,它也有存在意义。
有人欢喜有人忧,爱情就是如此。可欲不可求。
它能突如其来的出现,也能突然消失的无影无踪。
有时候有心栽花花不开,无心插柳柳成荫。
的确,爱情很是奇妙。爱情能使人作出不寻常的事情,爱情可以影响我们的心理,生理等。
爱,解释的来吗?不可以。爱情往往不按常理发展。虽然心理学有研究,但是毕竟只是‘研究’。学术和真实有时是有距离的。
真的。很多时候你尽力了,最后结果如何,还是要看老天的脸色。
有因比有果,不要怨天尤人,随遇而安吧。
但,话是这么说,心理还是会很无奈,无助。

Thursday, February 14, 2008

第一个感言

在粱导演的新电影里面,有句话叫“天将降大任于斯人也,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨。”
嗯,没错。有时候真的好累。没有一点鼓励是不行的啊。
这是我在这里,新的部落阁的第一个感言COMMENT。很多时候,我这个人很难在众人面前真正‘诉苦’。很多时候烦恼,忧虑是很难用言语表达的。用文字,或许能更加容易倾诉。
千万不要看了我的部落阁感言,然后跑来当面问我。我会很难回答你们的。
在这里,或许您能看到我的另一面,我的内心。当然,这毕竟是网络世界,我多少也会有一些保留。但是,无论如何,这里,是我‘发泄’的地方。
一切言论都很主观的。没有对错,只是拿来讨论,分享。
今天情人节,很多人问我关于情人的问题。我的回答?
一个微笑。
“随缘吧!”
如我的MSN所说的一样,“纵有千言万语,也开不了口,或许,一切竟在不言中”
是好是坏?我也不知道。
快要考试了。也要应付考试。
新年到来,许下很多愿望,都要靠自己努力争取。
我已经很努力了。我明白一分耕耘并不一定会有一分收获。
天时地利人合,缺一不可。
无奈啊,想不到我这第一个感言,是如此的‘无奈’。

徐家俊
炎热的夜晚

my old blog

well..my old blog still remain..for my mms uploads..a way to blog thru my mobile phone.
http://WiselyXu.moblog.com.sg

a good way to kick start my new blog..jiaying, my friend even mentioned its a 'good move'. lolz...

well, i hope so...im sort of a 'blog idiot'. at least thats what my sis called me. >_<

its V day. yes, a good way to remember the date i start my blog...

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

My first post

Finally..i got myself a blogger's account...

now i got 2 blog..but i'll be focusing on this. my old moblog will be used only to upload my mms pictures.My new blogger blog is for me to post my comments, my feelings and of course, a place for me to 'whine', to 'complain' and last but not least..to reflect.

cheers!