stress

stress is really scary..it can really affect a person's mood, analytical skill and can push a peson to commit atrocious acts.

Stress makes us say hurtful words and harsh comments, that can affect our relationship with our loved ones. In Singapore, i see many stressful people, including myself sometimes. Guess we really need some stress management in life..

Home sweet home...

Yeah..finally backed from Bandung Indonesia...the trip was rather fulfilling, at least i gain some experience..having abit of headache now..after 3 hrs of car ride from Bandung to Jarkarta, then 1.5hr of plane ride from Jarkarta to Singapore...well..some photos of my trip...

Get Smart

Well...before i forget...

i went to watch this movie with my bros few days ago...

its amazing. lolz.

Yes yes..ppl say its a crap show. So what? Sterotyping comedy movies? comedy movies are all crappy? hmm.. i would say, yes and no.

Stephen Chow made alot of 'crap shows' then. Different types of movies serve different purpose.

Romance, sci-fic, comedy, action etc. To me, Get Smart is great. Not too draggy, just nice. And almost every 5 mins i get to laugh.

And its a fine mixture of language and action comedy. Beside acting funny, the words, the lines are funny too. And best of all, not entirely CRUDE. There was little crude jokes. Unlike another 'comedy movie' zohan. It is plain crude. FOC for me and i will not watch it at all.

I enjoyed myself throughout the Get Smart movie.. for those who wish to relieve stress and enjoy a lighthearted movie, this is the one to go for it.

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bandung trip

well... in about 9 hours plus. i be boarding the Indonesia airline - Garuda(yes..again) to Bandung, via Jarkata.

this time round, its more of a cultural exchange trip. 23-27 june. Hmm..heard that Bandung famous for green and black tea..perhaps, i should get some for myself as well as my closed friends!

Haiz, having abit of a headache now..hope i be ok after some sleep...and 9 hours before my trip, once again... i am begining to start to keep thinking of someone and something.

anyway..bon vovage to myself.

接二连三

接二连三

突如其来的噩讯，接二连三，一波未平一波又起。
看来，我这下半年以及这来临的二三年将会是艰苦的。

‘沉睡’了那么久，一直在回避，一直还处于‘冬眠’状态的我，是时候醒来了。
是面对现实的时候，而且一醒来，就不能回头了。

人生就是如此，如同一班列车，开动之后，就必须一直走，走啊走，直到尽头。
我以前的闪避，沉静，是因为对自己的表现不太满意。认为‘时机’未到。

可是，上天这次如此的‘无情安排’，是告诉我‘时机’到了吗？是福是祸，我真的不懂。只能随机应变，不断的走这条漫长的路。希望这是条‘黄金路’。

一时的糊涂

一时的失误，一时的糊涂，造就了现在的问题，未来的麻烦。
一失足成千古恨，说的没错。
有时候真的不知道自己为何那么愚蠢....

看来，必须要坦然面对，再接再厉....
一个错误，将浪费我6个月和新币二千四百元。
务必要挽救这局势....

What's love?

a friend sent me this email...hmmm..quite interesting....


What's love?

A man was having a conversation with 'Yue Lao' the Deity of Marriage in the middle of the night.

Yue Lao was sitting down under the moon while the man was standing.

Man: O Lord, I have a girlfriend of five years, but now I have fallen madly in love with a new lady. I really don't know what to do.

Yue Lao: Are you sure that the lady you're now madly in love with is the one you love most, and will be the very last woman in your life?

Man: Yes.

Yue Lao: Then initiate a break up so you can be with the new lady!


Man: But my current girlfriend is gentle, kind, virtuous. If I initiate a break up, wouldn't it be quite cruel and unethical?


Yue Lao: In marriage and love, it will only be cruel and unethical if there is no love. You're now in love with another lady and no longer your girlfriend, and a break up is the right thing to do.


Man: But my girlfriend loves me very much, she really loves me very much.


Yue Lao: Then she is fortunate. Man: I'm going to leave her for another woman, and this should cause her to be in misery. How can she be fortunate?


Yue Lao: Because she still possesses the love she has for you, whereas you have lost the love you have for her, because you have fallen for someone new. Accurately speaking, it is a blessing to possess and a misfortune to lose possession, therefore the one in misery is you.


Man: But I'm leaving her for another woman, she should be the one who has lost me and thus feel miserable.


Yue Lao: You're wrong. You're only an entity in her love life. When you, the entity, no longer exists, her true love will continue on to another entity. Because in her love life, she has never lost true love, therefore she is the one who should be blessed and you the one in pain.



Man: She said she would love only me all her life and not a second man.


Yue Lao: Have you not said something similar before?


Man: I... I... I...



Yue Lao: Look at the three candles in the urn before you, the one that shines most brightly. Man: I don't know, they're all equally bright.



Yue Lao: These three candles can be likened to three women. One of them is the woman you have fallen for. There are so many humans in existence, and there are more than hundreds of thousands of women. You can't even tell which is the brightest or point out which is the woman you love now, yet why are you so sure the one you love now is that woman, and even more so, how can you be so sure she will be the last woman in your life?



Man: I... I... I...



Yue Lao: Now put one candle close to you, and look closely which of the three candles are the brightest. Man: Of course it's the one right in front of me.




Yue Lao: Now put it back to where it was, and then look again and tell me which is the brightest. Man: I really cannot tell which is the brighest.



Yue Lao: Actually, the candle you brought before you is like the woman whom you have fallen for. Love stems from the heart. While you love her, you feel that she is the brightest candle. When you put the candle back to where it was, once again you could not tell which was the brightest candle. This type of love is only a kind of greed that blinds you and looks beautiful and perfect on the surface, but in the end it's only an empty dream.


Man: Oh! Now I know. You didn't really want me to leave my girlfriend, you merely wanted to enlighten me.



Yue Lao: I won't tell you if you've seen through me. Now, go.



Man: Now I really know who I love - she is my girlfriend.

对牛弹琴

道德经曰：

『上士闻道，勤而行之。中士闻道，若存若亡。下士闻道，大而笑之。不笑；不足以为道。』

从这句话，我体会到如何‘对牛弹琴’而不会感到愤怒。

其实我们生活当中，真的会遇到很多‘牛’.... 自己愚昧，反而理直气壮得和你争论，甚至破口大骂。昏~！

trip to pulau ubin...

Hmmm...never mean this way..

IT never mean to be this way...
It's suppose to be a serious and perhaps even emotional scene. But why turn out to be erm.... a garbra and comical(comedy) show?
haiz... what is done, is done. 谋事在人，成事在天。
Let nature takes it course. haha...

Absolute and relative

主观和客观，绝对真理和相对性真理，如何区别？分辨？
何为绝对性真理，何为相对性真理？
我不知道，也找不到答案。
我的答案是主观的答案，还是客观的结论？

道，可道，非常道....

你的答案呢？


Subjectivity and objectivity, absolute truth and relative truth. How do we differentiate them? And what are they?
Someone asked me this question. It seems i still can get myself a satisfied answer.
Is my answer subjective? or objective?

Haiz. What is can be fully explored, is not the absolute. Indeed, indeed.

Whats your say?





ps: a good friend of mine took this photo of this laozi sculpture.... its look so realife. perhaps, it can give us some inspiration?

两个人的事

爱情，是两个人的事情。
但是，是两个一起面对人生的转折点。
是两个人以影响两个人身边的人的时刻。
两个人的世界，却能影响超过两个人的范围。

爱情是一种享受，也是一种牺牲。是一种重大的责任。
爱情的失败，是人忘记了这责任。
爱情是一个人生活变成两个人生活的开始。
爱情的‘痛苦’，是无法适应这改变。

爱情把‘我’变成‘我们’。从此生活开始转变。
爱情非儿戏，是从心开始，以心印心。
爱情需将心比心，心对心，不能口不对心。
爱情将一颗心，变成了两颗心，心心相印。
你准备了吗？他准备了吗？

back from my Indo Semarang trip

Some random shots...

Road of Semarang..

Yummy Indo desserts..

Old historical artifacts...

view from my window,..

ruins in the city.

Street of Semarang

do u know whats this?

印尼之行

印尼之行

再过3.5 小时，我就启程到印尼三宝垄去。
下星期一(090608)才回来。

坐的是印尼飞机，不是廉价航空。这已经算‘幸运’了。哈哈。
再来就是天气，实在酷热....想必那边也是如此吧...

不知道为什么，总是惦记着一个人。
Hmmm...

movies and more movies

These few days went to watch some great movies...

the above 2 were good movies, in which i really enjoyed it. Indiana Jones is great. although i didnt really watch its first 3, but Harrison Ford really got the charisma. Despite the age. To me, age doesnt matter. Movie is not about plain violence, sex scene, throw in lotsa money to have explosion scenes etc. Its about quality.

Narnia is good too. Although its catered for broad age group, kids to adults and its by Disney, therefore its quite 'kid friendly'. However, the plot, the cast is still good. looking forward for the 3rd one.

Whats next for me? hmm..Panda kungfu? lolz...or The Incredible Hulk...etc.